Silence is Golden. Silence is also a silent killer.
The recent spur of 'sensible' people committing suicide (some with their children), a recent article in ET and my own present 'silent' state prompted me to think over it.
People commit suicide mostly because they can't cope with a situation at hand. I would agree with the newspaper article that what kills them is not the issue they face, but the way they choose to deal with it - SILENCE.
When something bothers you and you don't share the issue with anyone, it starts taking toll on you. You lose your cool, sleep and calm - Silence is killing you from within.
Anger and Serious problems - both need to be let out in some way or the other. Venting out the anger helps, cribbing about the problems helps. But being silent doesn't. And what works wonders is discussing it!
When something bothers you and you don't share the issue with anyone, it starts taking toll on you. You lose your cool, sleep and calm - Silence is killing you from within.
Anger and Serious problems - both need to be let out in some way or the other. Venting out the anger helps, cribbing about the problems helps. But being silent doesn't. And what works wonders is discussing it!
& here's something to remember:
DO NOT BORE THE SAME PERSON WITH ALL YOUR PROBLEMS. MAINTAIN A PORTFOLIO - DIFFERENT ISSUES FOR DIFFERENT PEOPLE. :p
One must learn to share. Even if not one's happiness, one's sorrows must be shared.
As our beloved Kungfu Panda would put it.. the mission is INNER PEACE! :)
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